miss you like crazyMiss you like crazy

Just a short phrase that has a lot of embedded feelings within it.

Today’s blogpost is all about something that a very close friend of mine told me, and with her permission I am sharing this in an anonymous way with hopes that it helps heal any other broken hearts going through the same situation as hers.

See, she has been into a particular situation for quite some time. She has experienced a lot of heartache through the years. Yet some time ago a miracle happened. Someone came into her life and showed her life is worth living. He gave her reason to live, reason to hope for a better future ahead, reason to get back up on her feet and seek to regain control over her life once and for all…

Yet in a couple of minutes all crumbled down. Why? Because she is still waiting to regain control over her life when the time is right for her loved ones. So now she found herself lost, once again, missing what could have been, missing the one she had pictured herself loving till the end of time…which brought her to confide in me today…this is what I told her…

If it’s meant to be

It will be

 

See, there is no point in falling into a pit of negativity and darkness just because something went wrong. Who knows? Maybe all will eventually be restored. Or maybe someone else is bound to bring even more happiness into her life.

Truth is, no matter what she says or does, no matter how much she cries, no matter how desperate she feels and no matter how much she yearns…feeling miserable isn’t the answer. The answer is to be at peace with what is happening. Okay so things aren’t as good as she wants them to be, but by knowing deep within her heart that all that happens is as should be and for the highest good of all, then she can be at peace with all situations that flow into her life.

She can look up at the sky, be thankful for all the countless blessings she has received so far, be thankful for the wonderful memories that she has created with this special person in her life, and live in the present.

Worrying doesn’t solve a thing. Worrying doesn’t relieve pain. Which makes worrying pointless.

Now I turn to you…

If you, reading this blogpost, are into a similar situation of heartache, stop focusing on how painful it feels. Yes I do understand that memories keep flooding in your mind, causing you to relive those special moments you have shared with that special person in your life…but there is no point in worrying.

Acknowledge that what you had was a wonderful reminder of life’s many blessings. Be grateful that you have experienced such bliss in your life. Be thankful to that person who may have hurt you today, not for the pain, but for the wonderful memories you both have created earlier on. Do not turn your pain into rage, but instead have faith…

Remember, if it is meant to be it WILL be…

Close your eyes, breathe, enjoy the moment. Do not lose hope, for if this person is truly the one for you, the one meriting all the love you so willingly want to give, s/he will be there for you when situations get resolved. Time may seem crucial, yes, but if this person truly values who you are, s/he would be willing to wait for you no matter what. Have faith that all is as should be, and though it may look impossible today, it may still happen tomorrow.

Do not be afraid to love, no matter how many times you have been slapped right on the face. Love is a miracle that can overturn ANY obstacles standing in your way…and when love finds you, your world will turn into a magical place once again!

Live gratefully, let hope shine within your heart, and let love guide you…Always.

Much blessings to you <3

MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY LYRICS – NATALIE COLE

Even though it’s been so long
My love for you keeps going strong
I remember the things that we used to do
A kiss in the rain ’til the sun shine through
I try to deny it but I’m still in love with you
.
CHORUS
I miss you like crazy, I miss you like crazy
Ever since you went away, every hour of every day
I miss you like crazy, I miss you like crazy
No matter what I say or do
There’s just no getting over you
.
I can see the love shining in your eyes
And it comes as such a sweet surprise
If seeing’s believing it’s worth the wait
So hold me and tell me it’s not too late
We’re so good together, we’re starting forever now
.
CHORUS (2)
I miss you like crazy, I miss you like crazy
Ever since you went away, every hour of every day
I miss you like crazy, I miss you baby
A love like ours will never end,
Just touch me and we’re there again
.
Just one night
And we’ll have that magic feeling like we used to do
Hold on tight
And whatever comes our way we’re gonna make it through
.
If seeing’s believing it’s worth the wait
So hold me and tell me it’s not too late
We’re so good together, we’re starting forever now
.
CHORUS (3)
And I miss you like crazy, I miss you like crazy
No matter what I say or do
There’s just no getting over you
And I miss you, baby, I miss you, baby
All the chance of love you gave me
When a feeling get’s this strong
You know the real thing comes along
.
And I miss you I miss you like crazy baby
Only your sweet love can save me
I miss you like crazy
A love like ours will never end
Just touch me and we’re there again
Miss you like crazy, I miss you like crazy.

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