nobody loves meIntroducing me…Nobody loves me!

Such a powerful statement, powerful enough to have made you want to see what this blogpost will be uncovering about me, right?

Well, sometimes life puts us into situations where we feel unloved. Maybe you have fallen in love with someone and giving him/her your all, only to finally realise that you were never enough for this person to give you back their own heart in the same way you did. Maybe this person didn’t appreciate the fact that you have put your life on hold just so you can focus on giving him/her your everything.

In such situations you may feel like you have not just lost the person you love the most, but you have also lost yourself and have nothing left to live for. Maybe you feel unworthy, unloved…you don’t even know who you are anymore.

If you, reading this, can identify with the above, and you find yourself thinking in this same pattern over and over, then STOP…and  here is why…

True, some of us tend to fall in love faster and harder every time we do. Yet we tend to misinterpret the most important thing about love.

Why is it that when we lose love or feel unloved by someone whom we care about a lot, we fall into a depressive state? The answer is simple…because we tie our own happiness with someone else loving us.

Our happiness should never depend on another person’s feelings towards us…

Our happiness should come from the way WE feel about ourselves!

Feeling unhappy and sad and unworthy just because we are being rejected from someone else shows that we are depending on another person to make us feel happy, which shouldn’t be.

love myselfOn the contrary, we need to learn to seek happiness from within us. We need OURSELVES to be the source of pure happiness and bliss. Once we realise this, we learn to accept the love that we are given freely and unconditional, while enjoying a positive attitude no matter what.

This blogpost has been inspired by a friend who has been feeling lost and alone after a painful breakup. He just wanted to let go of life. He felt he had no reason to live any more. He had been living in unnecessary guilt, and whenever he was alone he kept punishing himself by immersing into a depressive state of mind. It is only when he realised his true potential, and that his own happiness depends on himself, that he stood back up and started enjoying life, even though still surrounded by the same depressive situations.

The title of the blogpost…Nobody Loves Me, is quite a negative one. It is also an affirmation in itself. The more one says it (or thinks it), the more one’s heart will keep on being broken, because like the Law of Attraction states, what you put out to the Universe, you are given back. Instead of focusing your happiness on being loved, start from loving yourself enough to know yourself inside out. The more you love yourself, the more you will be loved. Do not be afraid to uncover the true you, for doing so will allow you to attract those capable of loving the uniqueness that is found only within you!

Bottom line, we can choose to be happy and passionate about life no matter who rejects us or what wrongs are done to us. We just have to focus on making ourselves our own best friends. We need to learn who we truly are within, and not what others expect us to be. We need to seek what truly uplifts our souls and follow that fiery passion within our hearts. We need to accept and embrace our own individuality and love ourselves no matter what. We need to take all that comes across our paths as being what is for our own highest good. Only then can we be at peace with all that has been, all that is and all that will be.

I will leave you with a song I find is cute and quite funny as well (I believe it will make you smile :)). For those who have never seen this, it is a soundtrack from Camp Rock 2 – The Final Jam, and it’s where this young guy wants to win the girl’s heart, and here he uncovers quite a lot of things about himself, showing he is proud of who he is…that is how we should strive to be, proud of all that makes us unique, even if in others’ eyes we may seem weird.

Uncover the true you, accept and embrace all that you are, and true love will come your way 🙂

Here is Introducing Me by Nick Jonas…Enjoy!

“Introducing Me”

I’m good at wasting time,
I think lyrics need to rhyme,
And you’re not asking,
But I’m trying to grow a mustache.
I eat cheese, but only on pizza, please,
And, sometimes, on a homemade quesadilla.
Otherwise it smells like feet to me.
And I, I really like you when the moon looks like a toe nail.
And I love you when you say my name.[Chorus:]
If you wanna know, here it goes.
Gonna tell you there’s a part of me that shows,
If we’re close, gonna let you see everything,
But remember that you asked for it.
I’ll try to do my best to impress,
But it’s easier to let you take a guess, at the rest,
But you wanna hear what lives in my brain, my heart,
Well you asked for it,
For your perusing,
At times confusing,
Slightly amusing…
Introducing me!Do do do do do do,
Do do do do do do.
La da da da,
La da da da da da da, da.I never trust a dog to watch my food.
And I like to use the word ‘dude’
As a noun, or an adverb, or an adjective
And I, I never really been into cars.
I like really cool guitars
And superheroes
And cheques with lots of zeroes on ‘em.I love the sound of violins and making someone smile…

[Chorus]

Well you probably know more than you ever wanted to,
So be careful when you ask next time.

[Chorus]

Do do do do do do,
Do do do do do do.
Do do do do…
Introducing me!

 

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